I don't mind hearing about the one that got away. I used to fish small tourneys and there were times I would have hit paydirt if it weren't for losing fish. It's not a complaint, it's just fact of the matter. At times, the one that got away was an exciting and exhiliarating part of the trip. Better to hook a big one than not at all. When I lose a big fish or hear about some else doing the same, I don't take it as a complaint but let such a thing instill hope instead. I even like to hear about when folks see big fish that are not to be hooked at all. When I hook or even see a big fish, my heart rate picks up and I get excited even though it never made the net.
Don