Same here. I'm a bad liar when it comes to fishing. Most guys fish the same types of baits in our club so it's really no big secret most times. I do have one technique that has done well for me that few if any are using. I've told a couple guys who have given me good information in the past, but I've yet to see them throwing the same bait. They do decent fishing their way so probably haven't had a reason to try it yet.
Time on the water is hard to beat. I have my confidence baits, but I am constantly reading about new baits, techniques, etc to try later on. Pay attention to details and you will start developing your own confidence baits and techniques and become a better fishermen. Listening to others helps as well but always take it with a grain of salt. Most guys I fish against are full of crap most of the time I'm pretty sure. I always take their information in to consideration and try it myself but it doesn't always pan out so I try to find my own spots and patterns instead of relying on other peoples.
I'm a good example of this. I started fishing a river bass club two years ago. The first year was rough and I couldn't even weigh in a limit but learned a lot. The second year was MUCH better. I figured out a couple patterns and baits that I had confidence in and stuck with them and was able to win one tournament, get second in another and weigh in a limit at every tournament, even ones where most guys struggled to weigh more than a few fish. I can't wait till this year to try out a few other things I've learned.