You're right about the lashing out do to anger part Terry. I do tend to do that sometimes. I just am not a very forgiving person. It's just my nature. If somebody does something to me or anybody else that I don't care for, I can have hard feelings for quite a while.
Aside from that, I try to do anything for anybody and lend a helping hand anytime I can. I'm just a bear when somebody or something gets on my bad side.
I don't your're wrong in your words of wisdom Terry. Like I said, I just have a hard time forgiving somebody after they do something, even if they truely have changed. Dad always told me to "think before you act" because thinking one thing and doing something are two totally different things and sometimes doing something you will regret later on maybe never be forgotten or forgiven.