Food memories can be some of our strongest. My dad always raved about his Aunt Gertie's mincemeat pie. No other mincemeat pie came close. She died in 1957, and he died in 2004.
Lot's of food I remember and associate with family and friends: Mom's beef stew and her vegetable beef soup; that fruitcake with bourbon my dad got a few years in a row; Grandma Vi's pancakes, wilted lettuce, and her strawberry rhubarb, raisin cream and custard pies; Aunt Mary's grape leaves with labneh; Aunt Jo's fried chicken; Aunt Maraland's hot cheese dip. Mr. Galvin's hamburgers; Sandra's baklava (no office Christmas party this year, no baklava).
I think I've planted a bit of a seed too. ness 2.3 remembers me making Bierocks 'every Sunday', 2.1 loves Guinness beef stew. 2.2, who's had stomach issues off-and-on his whole life, has a very short list. It includes spaghetti with regular Prego and meat balls. He feels the need to ask, 'Did you add anything else to this, Dad?' before he eats. He also loves pumpkin pie. 'This isn't sweet potato pie is it???'. Nope, pumpkin recipe is right off the can.