I like ya wrench, but considering that a child is with a parent more than at school in a 12 month period, i think parents need to take a course in "parenting 101". Its amazing the amount of parents that are physically scared of their kid. My son "now 29" learned the hard way when he was 17 that dad doesnt mess around. He never made that mistake again, especially at the neighbors again.
I love kids, but letting a teen run the family doesnt work. I have 2, 13 year old twin step sons. One is seriously a demon, and the other just in a smaller boat. Both grew up with parents/grand parents that didnt believe in punishment "What a change when i stepped in" and even to this day, they control their father and grandparents lives 90%. no exaggeration. The demon doesnt come around anymore, which without my wife seeing, im glad. He's been addicted to porn since 11. His father caught him 6 months ago, and pulled the plug on the computer "for the 2nd time" and the kid actually broke his fathers nose. We got the text with pictures, and a question asking what i thought he should do about it. I REALLY dislike the guy, so i had my wife text back and say get him counseling that we have been asking for, for 2 years. Still hasnt happened. We let him move in with his father to lessin the stress in my home.