Having had this discussion with my pastor and others before I will say that there are more than a few folks who attend a church service every sunday who are a little too "Old Testament" for me or for most of the world, and who are more than willing to point all of everyone elses flaws and lapses in judgement with out seeing any issues for themselves. There are also a lot of folks in this world who are genuine good people, but for one or more reasons do not attend church even occasionally. Going to church services for me is not about my faith, it is a way to connect with others who strive to be the best christian they can, and to allow the fellowship, music, and sometimes the sermon recharge my batteries for the coming week. Many times while working emergency deployments etc. I have worked 7 days a week, never feeling like I was sinning for missing regular service. If more regular church goers were to miss a sunday a month and spend it helping their neighbors, friends, strangers etc. honestly I believe it would be a better world. And yes this last year has brought me closer to my faith in a way that easy/good times never could.