Out here in the 'burbs there are a whole lot of parents out there pushing their kids, and many seem to take pride in talking about their brutal schedules -- this practice, that tournament, whatever. I've always been of the mind that kids with too much to do, especially sports, are missing out on the 'kid' stuff, so we've always limited that to one sport at a time.
Where we live there's a lot of undeveloped land around, and we've always taken time to get out and knock around on it. My babies have been fishing since they were very young, and the boys hunting since they were about 12. Problem for me now is that they're teenagers, and hanging out with dad ranks below almost everything. But I know that's just part of the deal, and they'll come back around someday.
Every once in a while I'll get a surprise though: in October we did our annual family get-together at Roaring River, and my 100% girl daughter told me she wanted to fly fish -- which we haven;t done together in several years. Well, the trout gods were smiling on us because she hooked and/or landed about a half-dozen fish in an hour, all on a leetle, tiny white Cahill. Probably another half-dozen looked real hard or took it and spit it. It is always a thrill for me when that happens, but watching her getting thrilled was the best part.
Just gotta plant the seed, take them with you when you can, don't make them go if they don't want to, give them something else to do when they're done, and don't make it about yourself.
It's gonna be harder and harder to keep the outdoor traditions alive the way things are going though. Rural-area economics have changed so dramatically that they support fewer and fewer people. Small/medium-sized farms just don't support a family on their own. The incredibly cheap foreign labor tempts business to send it overseas, rather than to the small towns. It's sad.