DK,
Myself nor anyone else was telling you off. What we are trying to get across to you, and any other lookers, is when you join a site, fishing, hunting, etc. its always best to share stories, give small details of your successes if any, get to know those that post "via comments back and forth", and then put in the time of being a part of that group, before, again "before" you ask for locations, secrets, times, baits, etc. I personally know a few of the guys here, and any of them would tell you anything they knew to help a buddy out. In the meantime, share details of your outings, join in on the conversations, get to know these guys, and before you know it, you may be invited out fishing. Just me speaking openly, no bashing as im not that way.