I'm pretty specialized in my work with not too many opportunities in my field outside of a few locations accross the country.
When I lived in PA, I knew a couple that lived in PA and communted to Manhattan to work. 6.5 hours round trip, but they both said that it was great to wake up in the Pocono mountains away from the city on the weekends. Also they had great paying jobs that allowed them to buy a lot of cheaper real estate in PA. So what I need to find is a house about 1-2 hours from the White river and 2-3 hours from Columbia. Okay first get the kids out of the house (hopefully 10 years from now for my youngest), then find a new home. Okay get the kids out of the house and no longer on the payroll and convince my wife. She's becoming a bit of a prepper. So It may not be too hard to get her move off of grid.